The hardest thing I ever did was tell my young children that I had cancer (6 and 3 at the time) and both had just lost their grandmother to pancreatic cancer a year prior. With that being said...I wouldn't tell them a thing until I knew for sure.

Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.