Hi, Jude. I'm so glad you found OCF. It's a wonderful place to find answers to questions, to vent, get advice and comfort. I found this site a couple of years into my mother's cancer and wish I had found it earlier because I'm sure it would have helped things go smoother for her. Please continue to keep up the positive attitude for your daughter (and you!) - it will help both of you get through this. I'm glad she's getting seen soon and will watch for future posts. I have two daughters myself and I know how hard it must be for you. Take care and hang in there.