he doesnt have to be in this much pain. he definately needs better pain meds and i suspect that since he is not a "complainer" he isnt letting the docs know exactly how much pain he is in. that is where yall can step in to be his advocate. let the docs know exactly how much pain he is in, and all of his severe symptoms. the docs cant help if they dont know....
i literally had to drag andy out of bed and make him go to treatments...still do. do what u have to do, ur dad is in a bad place right now, he needs yall to help push him thru. this is when it gets tough on caregivers, but u can do it.