David
dont ever be sorry for holding Robin up as an example of what not to do,and if his story scares the bejesus out of anyone who thinks its ok to smoke and drink after a diagnosis of Oral Cancer then all well and good.I have said a hundred times that the whole reason for staying on these boards is to give some point to Robs death.Hopefully our experience will help others fighting the same demons,and my experiences will benfit other carers riding the same bus.

Last edited by Cookey; 11-24-2009 11:14 PM.
Liz in the UK

Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.

Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.