Hi
my husband drank before,during and after his cancer,the doctors here were in no doubt that his alchohol use contributed to his cancer,but it didn't stop him nothing could,no pleading,no begging,not leaving him,he didnt want to stop so he didn't.Believe me i know what that feels like as a carer,but he is an adult and you can't force him to realise what a totally selfish person he is being after all the time and effort invested in his care it seems so ungrateful doesn't it?