Thanks. I don't think it was anything major-though to me, even a drag is major. She said she has only done it once and a while...which makes me think it could be more often, but I don't know. I don't know if its a drag or a whole cigarette. She told me again today she will never smoke again. I don't like to be pacified, nor do I feel comfortable making judgements. I'm scared. I probably sound na�ve. I feel idiotic because I just don't understand how someone who's tongue is falling off more from severe necrosis would do something like this-whether it be a drag or the whole darn cigarette. She said that she has been so stressed, hungry and in great pain. I couldn't respond, I bet I probably had a nasty look glaze over my eyes. I don't want to be like this but seems I can't find control. The other thing is now I am worried, what if she started something up? I am mad as hell. I will look into the vaporizer, that sounds terrific. Thank you.