Well Nancy
Like you I want to lash out... I want to shout this is not fair, this only happens to other people not ME.. I have Lupus as well and depression is a feature of that during a flare.. and stress causes a flare.. and cancer causes stress.. so I take prozac and hope that will be enough..My husband is blind and I find myself wishing it was different.. I want to be cared for...not the care giver.. Life is not like that is it?... like you I wish I had found this site earlier.. this is my family of care givers.. no questions asked just 100% backing when I need it.. So to you all THANK YOU
Sunshine... love and hugs
Helen


SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04