"Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts) Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 372 | Hey Sweety, I can only let you know that I am keeping you in my prayers. I have no secrets or help to add except that crying out to God everyday was what got me thru so far...and I am just the caregiver! Sometimes the fear just overwhelms me and then I try and focus on each moment or each day...definitely not the future. I also have been taking Xanax when needed to deal with it all.
Take care, Debbie
Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.
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