 Supporting Member (50+ posts)
Joined: Jun 2010 Posts: 58 | WildBill,
I have to honor and respect your decision. My husband passed 18 mo. after dx, after exhaustive treatment. I wonder now if it was all worth it, if we should have just said, 'screw it', after they found the mets to his lungs after nasty chemo and rads, feeding tube, swallowing problems, and much more. He was a fighter tho. Would not give up. I also respected him for that. Strongest and most determined man I know. We had over 34 yrs. of a wonderful life together and for that I am grateful.
So, live life to the fullest, but be wise as well.
Take care.
Bonnie
CG to husb John, 57, love of my life for 35 yrs.
Dx 2/10, T2N2cMx, SCC BOT & lymph nodes.
Non smoker. Biopsy HPV+.
No surgery - IMRT 35X + 7 chemos cleared BOT
9/10-mets to lungs.
2 rounds chemo, last one trial drug which did not work.
Lost the battle, but walking in Glory 9/7/11.
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