Oh Callie, I am so sorry about the bad news. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that Don's doctors are hooking you up with hospice. Some help from them would be beneficial for both of you. Sometimes it's hard to ask for help and to take care of yourself when you are so accustomed to focusing on Don.

Bless you !

Dodie

Aunt diag. 2/4/10 with SCC Stage I/II on left side of tongue. Surgery 2/19/10 part. gloss./neck diss. on left side/free flap from chest muscle. TI/II,NO,MO. Clear margins with perineural invasion. Started rads 4/8/10 - 35 treatments, finished 5/26/10.