well, good news, my fiance and i spoke this weekend and he agreed with me that we should keep our wedding date as is. we are going to speak with his parents this weekend, we told them we want to talk about the wedding, not sure if they know what though... thankyou all for your advice. pray it goes well!!!

*KATIE*
future FIL dx with s4 SCC in jaw11/09 15 hour surg/trach/PEG in. 7 weeks of cisplatin/rads. 6/10- cancerous lung nodule- 1 wk of radiation. 8/13 pneumonia. 8/24 pulmonary embolism, on ventillator. 9/3/10 died peacefully w/o pain with family. 9/17/10 my wedding