oops, i mis-spoke. charm, i thanked you for non-existant links lol. where is there a link to roger ebert;s writings??? im not familiar with what this is. thanks again for sharing.

*KATIE*
future FIL dx with s4 SCC in jaw11/09 15 hour surg/trach/PEG in. 7 weeks of cisplatin/rads. 6/10- cancerous lung nodule- 1 wk of radiation. 8/13 pneumonia. 8/24 pulmonary embolism, on ventillator. 9/3/10 died peacefully w/o pain with family. 9/17/10 my wedding