Senior Member (100+ posts) Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 100 | One thought that I had was that you said the reconstruction surgery could be about six months out which if I count correctly would be early September, about the same time as your wedding. I think your fiance should ask for the reason behind the statement, your FIL could be thinking he may still be in the hospital recuperating from the surgery. I know we find it difficult to make plans more than a month or two away with all the uncertainty that comes with treatment.
Tom-CG to wife, Pam 46@dx Stage IV Tongue Cancer T2N2C Dx 6/08, Surgery 7/08, 3 nodes positive 9/08 33IMRT/7Carbo/Taxol 4/09 node biopsy positive, mets to lungs/stomach 5/09 Cisplatin or Cis/Alimta study 6/09 Cis/Taxotere 9/09 Taxotere 1/10 Xeloda 3/10 Cetuximab weekly 6/29/10 lost battle
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