we cant move the wedding up because we've already put several deposits down at our venue which is extremely popular and we got one of the only dates left for teh whole year with our date.

the issue really is no longer about issues round reconstruction, more so being self conscious.

kelly, i appreciate your insight to social anxiety. i was a psychology major in college so i do understand what you are saying. i know that my frustration wont help so i do need to remain calm. how can i help them get over this? does it just take time?