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Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,409 | That's great, Bette. Hope it continues to be better for you.
And Emily.... man, you've been through the ringer. Ativan has been very helpful to me too, it's just about the only thing that allows me to sleep a full night. Hope you get a few good nights' sleep, and then more than a few!
David 2
SCC of occult origin 1/09 (age 55)| Stage III TXN1M0 | HPV 16+, non-smoker, moderate drinker | Modified radical neck dissection 3/09 | 31 days IMRT finished 6/09 | Hit 15 years all clear in 6/24 | Radiation Fibrosis Syndrome kicked in a few years after treatment and has been progressing since | Prostate cancer diagnosis 10/18
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Joined: Apr 2012 Posts: 60 | I am glad to hear this from all of you caregivers. This last surgery for neck dissection which happend quickly from the day we heard until the day we were in the emergency room really tore up my husband. I made him see a therapyst and he said he couldn't relate. I said to him do you think they can relate to you when you are all of the place try again. He did it helped and now he has an appointment to get some meds. I told him don't be afraid of them. They are there to support you when nothing else is working. I told him I have been on them for years and if hadn't been I don't know if would have made it through the first cancer. So yes get help. I hope you all get a good nights sleep and vent as long as you want, I am a good listner.
Robijn
10/10 IV OSCC metastatic to lymph nodes. 10/10 Peg,Port,Trech. due to rad scarring cannot swallow. 9/12 Pet clean. SCC back again 11/12. Tumor attached to jugular, Rad DX left side of neck 11/19/12. No Chemo or Rads. MRI on 1/11/13 for chronic pain w/pet scan 2/15/13.
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Joined: Oct 2012 Posts: 118 | Thanks to everyone for your support this last week. 3 days to surgery and I'm getting a bit anxious. I'm keeping busy. I have last minute packing to do today as we are leaving Monday morning for the city. Decided to go a day early to see the grandkids as I probably won't get to see them for Christmas this year. Haven't decided if I will give them thier Christmas presents now or just leave them under the tree. Tuesday will be a busy day before the surgery. REg has to have some pre-op tests. Hopefully that will all go well so there will no delays. We have waited long enough. Besides the pain is really getting bad now. Obviously that tumoor is pressing on a nerve. Will post daily once he is the hospital.
Again, thanks to all.
Bette/CG to husband Reggie 66
dx 1: SCC Soft Palate (12/06)
tx: chemo and rad
dx 2: SCC 6 cm tum rt. vocal chord (12/09)
tx: total laryngectomy with stoma, 2 nodes
dx 3: SCC 4 cm tum BOT (10/16/12)
Tx: partial gloss w/ mod deck dis 4 nodes incl. part. pharyngectomy
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Joined: Jul 2012 Posts: 3,267 Likes: 4 | Good luck with the surgery, and recovery!
10/09 T1N2bM0 Tonsil
11/09 Taxo Cisp 5-FU, 6 Months Hosp
01/11 35 IMRT 70Gy 7 Wks
06/11 30 HBO
08/11 RND PNI
06/12 SND PNI LVI
08/12 RND Pec Flap IORT 12 Gy
10/12 25 IMRT 50Gy 6 Wks Taxo Erbitux
10/13 SND
10/13 TBO/Angiograph
10/13 RND Carotid Remove IORT 10Gy PNI
12/13 25 Protons 50Gy 6 Wks Carbo
11/14 All Teeth Extract 30 HBO
03/15 Sequestromy Buccal Flap ORN
09/16 Mandibulectomy Fib Flap Sternotomy
04/17 Regraft hypergranulation Donor Site
06/17 Heart Attack Stent
02/19 Finally Cancer Free Took 10 yrs
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Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 1,024 | Thinking of you and Reggie.
Tammy
Caregiver/advocate to Husband Kris age 59@ diagnosis
DX Dec '10 SCC BOT T4aN2bM0 HPV+ve.Cisplatin x3 35 IMRT.
PET 6/11 clear.
R) level 2-4 neck dissection 8/1/11 to remove residual node - necrotic with NED
Feb '12 Ca back.. 3/8/12 total glossectomy/laryngectomy/bilat neck dissection/partial pharyngectomy etc. clear margins. All nodes negative for disease. PEG in.
March 2017 - 5 years disease free. Woohoo!
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Joined: Oct 2012 Posts: 118 | Thank you Tammy and Paulb
Bette/CG to husband Reggie 66
dx 1: SCC Soft Palate (12/06)
tx: chemo and rad
dx 2: SCC 6 cm tum rt. vocal chord (12/09)
tx: total laryngectomy with stoma, 2 nodes
dx 3: SCC 4 cm tum BOT (10/16/12)
Tx: partial gloss w/ mod deck dis 4 nodes incl. part. pharyngectomy
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Bette, have safe travels. Best wishes to your husband with his surgery!!! Waiting to see a good post afterwards!
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive  | | | | | Joined: Oct 2012 Posts: 118 Senior Member (100+ posts) | | OP Senior Member (100+ posts)
Joined: Oct 2012 Posts: 118 | Thanks Christine. I have a question for you or any admin for that matter. Is there a mobile app for OCF? If so, where may I find It?
Bette/CG to husband Reggie 66
dx 1: SCC Soft Palate (12/06)
tx: chemo and rad
dx 2: SCC 6 cm tum rt. vocal chord (12/09)
tx: total laryngectomy with stoma, 2 nodes
dx 3: SCC 4 cm tum BOT (10/16/12)
Tx: partial gloss w/ mod deck dis 4 nodes incl. part. pharyngectomy
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Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | Bette, on an iPhone, all you would have to do is go to the OCF website and then save it to your home screen and it looks just like an app. This can probably be done on other smart phone. There is an OCF "talk for me" app in the works which Christine or one of the Admins can give you more info about.
Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
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Joined: Oct 2012 Posts: 118 |
Bette/CG to husband Reggie 66
dx 1: SCC Soft Palate (12/06)
tx: chemo and rad
dx 2: SCC 6 cm tum rt. vocal chord (12/09)
tx: total laryngectomy with stoma, 2 nodes
dx 3: SCC 4 cm tum BOT (10/16/12)
Tx: partial gloss w/ mod deck dis 4 nodes incl. part. pharyngectomy
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