My husband is 5 months post treatment now. The ringing in the ears comes and goes as well as the shakiness. I know recovery realistically takes 1 to 2 years. He gets tired so easily and has little energy at times, and he is still struggling with memory issues and overall cognitive functioning. I think he is petrified of returning to his high demand career because of these struggles right now. He is so much better than he was 2 months ago, but it seems there is still a mountain in front of us. When did any of you see improvement in these areas??

Everybody is going to be different when it comes to recovery.

Cancer Related Fatigue (CRF) can last for a while after treatment. Exercise is the best way to help with it, but also getting his TSH levels checked as well as his testosterone. There is medications for both if deficiancies are found and they can help improve the issues.

Memory loss...tough one. I still suffer however mine isn't just due to the chemo but from long term opiate use. If your husband is still on opiate pain meds they can cause both memory loss and fatigue.

5 Hour Energy helped me with the energy issues even when I was still on a large dose of fentanyl. I still use it myself and it helps me pull the long days I've become accustomed to.

Hope that helps,

Eric

The ringing in his ears is likely permanent hearing damage and he needs a hearing test to define it.

I was weak as a kitten for a good 6 months post Tx.

My docs have told me one month recovery for every week of radiation. I was pretty good at 4 months out, even better at 8. At 5 months he should be feeling much much better than before, not what you are describing. It could be his thyroid holding him back from having any energy. Has he had recent bloodwork? Might be anemia? Or low white counts will make him feel lousy. I suggest checking in with his medical oncologist and having bloodwork done. There could be a very simple explanation for how your husband is feeling. Hope this helps.

I am currently on thyroid meds because of my low energy levels, but sometimes my energy is very high. It did take me a while before I was able to go back to work full time, and I still find that when I have had a very busy day at work, I just crash when I get home, but hey, I'm 65 and maybe this would be the case even if I never got cancer. The "chemo brain" thing: I find I really need to write everything down - but again, that also could be my age, as well. As one poster just said - everybody's different. Everybody tells me I really look great, so I guess I'm doing as well as expected with my "new normal."

Thanks so much! He just got off the patch last week. He does have permanent hearing loss so much they recommend hearing aides. Small price to pay:)

I thought I had chronic fatigue but it turned out I needed thyroid meds. While my CCC doctors were top notch on Cancer, for related issues like Thyroid - "not so much". I was not only extremely tired but also froze for two years, even in summer, and kept a winter coat on in air conditioned places yet I was constantly told: "Your TSH levels are normal" and I did not ask for the actual numbers or test results. Turns out however there is controversy over what is the right TSH level with labs having a 5.5, a 4.5 even though endocrinologists who went to Medical school the 21st Century consider 3.0 as the highest acceptable level. Before TX, I had a TSH of 1.6 and after TX it shot up to 4.3. My TSH level went down to 1.48, now that I am "on the pill", I am finally warm again. Plus my energy is back Of course there could also be nothing wrong at all with his thyroid . But it's a simple blood test. Check back on his back records to see if he has a pre radiation TSH level to shoot for.
Best wishes
Charm

As said, each patient reacts differently, and in fact, each treatment is different. I had 33 doses of radiation to my throat/neck, and three doses of Cisplatin, and only 6 months later, a limited neck dissection just to make sure (nothing there, phew!).

In my case the steroids and/or the Fentanyl and/or the whole physical slam did a number on my head for a time. I then suffered low energy and insomnia for months. By the way, just coming off the Fentanyl patch can, for some, be a huge and extended challenge! It was for me.

I also suffered degraded short-term memory, and was very easily overwhelmed by the slightest uncertainty.

What I can say is now, just about ten months from the end of my primary treatment, I think I am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. All of my various complaints have very very gradually improved. Oh how I longed for a "sudden" return to "normal" sleep, but this never came. However, I am sleeping better. My energy is pretty good. I'm getting out to jog, and I'm just about to start working again. My memory is returning, and my optimism to face uncertainty is returning. I hope to improve lots more, but it's coming.

I can relate to your husband's concerns about returning to work. I couldn't have done it a few months ago (or it would have been very very challenging, at least). But now, I'm feeling ready.

Time, patience, nutrition, exercise (when you're ready). It really is true, it gets better. At times it really didn't seem possible, but it has.

Good luck!

-Seth

Thanks everyone for the encouragement. All blood work came back normal. We were told time, diet, and exercise . . . . We'll keep on keepin' on.

I am a year and a half out of treatments, (10 weeks of Rad, 3 courses of Cisplatin) and am still feeling the effects. I have ringing but it is slight. I'm still fatigued but slooowly getting better. They have run all the tests and thyroid and testosterone are nomal. The only anomaly is low blood count so I am taking iron. As for chemo brain, I'm convinced that there was permanent damage. During treatment, I couldn't concentrate long enough to read a book and now I can do that but I have been very absent minded, freak easily, and can't multi-task at all.