#12831     11-09-2007 11:12 AM      |       Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 221    Gold Member (200+ posts)   |      OP      Gold Member (200+ posts)    Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 221  |        
CG to Father, 75 yo with SCC of the mouth; upper maxillectomy and neck diss. performed on 5/23/07.  Father also suffered heart attack during surgery and now has CHF.  RT complete on 8/28/07.  Cancer back 11/27/07.  RT and Chemo to start on 12/17.  Cancer back 6/17/08.  Finally at rest 08/08/08.
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#12832     11-09-2007 12:03 PM      |       Joined:  May 2007  Posts: 632    "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  May 2007  Posts: 632  |    Joy, Of course you're crying and worried! Who wouldn't be??? At least there's a schedule of tests/consults. Hey, I worried for 5 years about my dad--but he made 5 years! And as for myself, well, knowing what I'm dealing with, I just know and accept. Post all you want/need as it's so therapeutic--no-one can predict the future and outcomes, as all on here know, are different. In my thoughts Joy and keep us updated on how things go.
  Brenda        
Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4  6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine        therapy September 07 Now dying to live!
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#12833     11-09-2007 12:23 PM      |       Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 510    "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 510  |    Joy:  Just a note to let you know that we're thinking of you and your Dad and Mom during this difficult time...Do let us know when you get definitive results...
  Lois & Buzz in NC        
CG to 77 y/o hubby;SCC Alveolar Ridge;  Wake Forest Baptist Hosp surgery: 07/19/07; bi mod radical resection/jaw replacement;   T2 N2-B M0 Stage IV-A 28 IMRT +  6 Paclitaxel/Carboplatin  Getting stronger every day!
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#12834     11-09-2007 10:56 PM      |       Joined:  Apr 2007  Posts: 64    Supporting Member (50+ posts)   |           Supporting Member (50+ posts)    Joined:  Apr 2007  Posts: 64  |    Listening is what we do best! Thank you for sharing your fears. Now head up and move forward and support your Dad, what we need most is the support of those we love. Wishing your family peace! Regards, Adele        
Adele,  mucoepidermoid carcinoma of the submandibular gland, 05/06,  left neck dissection, gland and tumor removed, intermediate grade, margins negative, 9 lymph nodes negative, no rad, no chemo,  11/07 surgical biopsy of lymph node left neck, no cancer!
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