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#120206 08-11-2010 05:36 AM
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I hate to have to say this and I still cant believe this is happening but my mom passed away yesterday morning in her home.
She had only done 2 treatments of chemo. It was just too hard for her. She was too weak. She hadnt received much nutrition at all because it made her sick. They day prior to her passing, she had actually kept down two cans of food and told us she felt better, and she seemed to look better...monday and tuesday were her good days.
Tuesday morning she started hemorrhaging, a lot. My step dad was with her. She collapsed and didnt regain consciousness. I was notified at work while I was teaching.

Best of luck to you all and thank you for being there for me during this awful time in my life


my mom, age 59.

12/08 surgery & 33x rad
4/09 recurrence
5/09 surgery & 35x rad
12/09 recurrence
1/10 surgery. peg tube, trach, fibula free flap
6/10 recurrence. double chemo treatments.
8/10/10 finally at peace in heaven
EmilyE #120209 08-11-2010 05:46 AM
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What can one say..... that's just horrible. Anyone who has lost a parent knows how devastating that can be. I'm truly sorry.


David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
davidcpa #120216 08-11-2010 07:13 AM
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Oh Emily! I feel so sad for you, I know you love your mom to pieces, it showed through your emails/posts, I know you will miss her dearly. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. Stay well my friend! Sending you cyber ((HUGS))!!!


Dx 3/27/09 @ 28 years old with High Grade MEC T4N2M0
Elizabeth, 33, mother of 3 girls (4,7, &8yrs old)
3 rds of chemo(Carbo/Taxol)
Rt Mandibulectomy, rt fibular flap,& rt ND with trach, picc,& g-tube.
30 rds of rads with weekly cisplatin
SCANS ALL CLEAR!
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ESikon #120217 08-11-2010 07:24 AM
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Emily, I am so sorry for your lose. I find peace knowing that your Mom was able to come home and not pass in a hospital. I hope you find peace too. I can't imagine how it feels to lose your Mom. You are in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. Hugs!!!!


CG to Sister (42). Smoker quit @ diagnosis Dx 4/20/10 SCC T2N0M0, Rside of tongue Hemigloss R neck dis, all nodes removed 6/2/10, Trach and NG in, home 6/8/10,8/18/2010 start erbitux x6, 30 IMRT end 10/11/10 with only 3x erbitux due to reaction and one week off of rads
1/10/2011 Clear PET!!!
Susan3175 #120218 08-11-2010 07:55 AM
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Emily, it is impossible to know your pain. I am so sorry that you lost your Mom. I had been following your posts and could see how dedicated you were to helping her.


Anita (68)
CG to husband, Clark, 79,
DX SCC 11/07, T4N0Mx, PEG 1/08, RAD, post rad infection 3/08,
HBOT 40 dives, ORN, Surg 11/09 mandibulectomy w/fibular graft.
Plastic Surg 4/10, 12/10, 3/11, 10/11, 4/12, 10/12. All PETS clear,
PEG out 1/11. 6/11 non union jaw fracture
Fractured jaw w/surgery 7/14
Aspiration pneumonia 7/21, 10/22
PEG 7/21
Botox injections
AnitaFrances #120221 08-11-2010 08:41 AM
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Dear Emily,

I was so sad reading your post....I have no words....you and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry.

Shelley


Caregiver to husband Ron. Throat Cancer. Finished 35 radiation treatments on 11/21/04. 8/2/11 small lesion on lower gum, laser Procedure to remove. 3/6/12 Doc. removed another lesion on outside of his neck. Did a skin graft from his chest to replace the skin on his neck. Went to Heaven on 6/24/12.
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Emily-So very sorry for your loss.


cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.
suemarie #120224 08-11-2010 10:47 AM
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Emily,

There are no words.

Keeping you and your mom in my prayers.


Kelly
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48, SCC (Soft Palet) Rt.,
Stage 1, T3n0m0,
Dx, 8-09, Start IMRT 35 9-2-09 end 10-21-09
04-20-10 NED
8-11 recurrence, node rt. neck N2b
10-11 33 IMRT w/chemo wkly
3-12-12 PET - residual cancer
4-12 5 treatments with Cyberknife & Erbitux
6-19-12 Pet scan CLEAR
12-3-12 PET - CLEAR
Kelly211 #120225 08-11-2010 11:50 AM
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Emily, my thoughts are with you. Your mother was very brave, as are you.

David 2


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SCC of occult origin 1/09 (age 55)| Stage III TXN1M0 | HPV 16+, non-smoker, moderate drinker | Modified radical neck dissection 3/09 | 31 days IMRT finished 6/09 | Hit 14 years all clear in 6/23 | Radiation Fibrosis Syndrome kicked in a few years after treatment and has been progressing since | Prostate cancer diagnosis 10/18
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Emily, I am very sorry for the loss of your mother. You gave her the best possible care she could have had. Let the good memories help ease your pain in the difficult time. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. ((((HUGS))))


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile
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