|    |       Joined:  Jan 2009  Posts: 1,844    Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |      OP      Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2009  Posts: 1,844  |    "I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today." -William Allen White        
Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche  "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jun 2008  Posts: 475    Platinum Member (300+ posts)   |           Platinum Member (300+ posts)    Joined:  Jun 2008  Posts: 475  |    This is an awesome quote Eric, I will have to borrow this one!!          
 Susan Lauria - OCF Director of Events - Always looking for volunteers to help spread the word about early detection! Contact me if you can help!
  *Brother passed away from tongue cancer in 2006 at age 47, was co-caregiver, he was non-smoker/casual drinker
  LETS MAKE ORAL CANCER HISTORY!
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Aug 2007  Posts: 1,301    "OCF Down Under" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |           "OCF Down Under" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Aug 2007  Posts: 1,301  |    Love it too Eric and would like to add this one.. "A friend should be a master at guessing and keeping still." - Friedrich Nietzsche 
 
         
History Leukoplakia bx 8/2006 SCC floor mouth T3N0M0- Verrucous Carcinoma. 14 hour 0p SCC-Right ND/excision/marginal mandibulectomy 9/2006, 4 teeth removed, flap from wrist, trach-ng 6 days- no chemo/rad. 6 ops and debulking (flap/tongue join) + bx's 2006-2012. bx Jan 2012 Hyperkeratosis-Epithelial Dysplasia 24cm GIST tumour removed 8/2013. Indefinite Oral Chemo.
  1/31/16  passed away peacefully surrounded by family
     |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  May 2008  Posts: 551    "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)    Joined:  May 2008  Posts: 551  |    Love this one, Eric. Thank you.
 
         
Stage IV SCC lt lateral tongue, surgery 5/19/08 (partial gloss/upper neck dissection left side/radial free flap reconstruction) IMRT w/weekly Cisplatin & Erbitux 6/30/08, PEG 1 6/12/08 - out 7/14 (in abdominal wall, not stomach), PEG 2 7/23/08 - out 11/20/08, Tx done 8/18/08 Second SCC tumor, Stage 1, rt mobile tongue, removed 10/18/2016, right neck dissection 12/9/2016 Third SCC tumor, diagnosed, 4/19/2108, rt submandibular mass, HPV-, IMRT w/ weekly Cisplatin, 5/9 - 6/25/2018, PEG 3 5/31/2018
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Mar 2008  Posts: 3,082    Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Mar 2008  Posts: 3,082  |    This saying seems so appropriate to us here at OCF [quote]Sometimes even to live is an act of courage.  ~Lucius Annaeus Seneca, Letters to Lucilius [/quote] Charm         65 yr Old Frack  Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+  2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG 2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery 25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin  Apaghia /G button 2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa 40GY-CyberKnife(5)  3 Carboplatin    Passed away 4-29-13
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8    Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Administrator, Director of Patient Support Services Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Jun 2007  Posts: 10,507 Likes: 8  |     Excellent quote!!!!!
  So true for those of us living with daily limitations from oral cancer!!!        ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44  2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07  -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma  2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years  very happy to be alive       |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jan 2009  Posts: 1,844    Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |      OP      Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2009  Posts: 1,844  |    �Fear is a habit; so is self-pity, defeat, anxiety, despair, hopelessness and resignation. You can eliminate all of these negative habits with two simple resolves: I can!! and I will!!� unknown.
  Great quote Charm...very true as well.        
Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche  "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Feb 2007  Posts: 790    "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)   |           "Above & Beyond" Member (500+ posts)    Joined:  Feb 2007  Posts: 790  |     The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt        
Tongue Cancer T2 N0 M0 /  Total Glossectomy Due to Location of Tumor
  Finished all treatments May 25 2007 Surviving!!!
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Jan 2009  Posts: 1,844    Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)   |      OP      Patient Advocate (1000+ posts)    Joined:  Jan 2009  Posts: 1,844  |    "Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness.  Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing.  Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength."
  August Wilson        
Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche  "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.
  |      |       |               |    |       Joined:  Mar 2008  Posts: 3,082    Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)   |           Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)    Joined:  Mar 2008  Posts: 3,082  |    bumping this post back up with a new quote [quote]Coping with an illness is an art that must be relearned every single day.  There is no magic.  Coping evolves - Richard M Cohen[/quote] charm         65 yr Old Frack  Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+  2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG 2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery 25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin  Apaghia /G button 2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa 40GY-CyberKnife(5)  3 Carboplatin    Passed away 4-29-13
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