Well Nancy,, the best thing is not to think about death and take your hubby and go to A CCC and see some that understand and know how to be very agressive treating this. I was treated agressively and evne put in a coma for a few days so they could put rad seed implants in my tongue,, Make all of the calls you have to , but get to a CCC and very soon so they can help in this situation. You are in my prayers.