Wendy,

You are already a great caregiver in my opinion and believe me you will learn more as you go. This site is extremely helpful in all ways so ask, rant or rave away anytime you want to and you will get plenty of support.

My wife, my vida, the saver of my butt was an only child and she came through like a pro even without the wisdom of this or any site as she is computer challenged in the worst way.

Don't feel at all unusual if you get totally frustrated at times because you will and don't be surprised if the love of your life yells at you because he probably will since you are there.


David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.