"OCF Canuck" Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,357 Likes: 5 | Totally agree - do what you need to do. Might be fun to lay down and just have a total 2 year old temper tantrum! Get a block of wood and pound nails into it until your arms are weak. Its not fair and its not right. Your Mom should not have to go through this and there should be an answer to WHY. But there isn't.
I still struggle with control issues. I still believe in the illusion that I have control over at least some things in life when the truth is I don't. I do have control over how I react to them - but I have no control over the actual events.
Kick, scream - punch something and repeat. We understand your frustration and I'm sure you Mom is feeling some of it too. Keep posting - we're here for you.
Donna
Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)
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