Leo,
I am a huge fan of alternative healing and herbal remedies. But NOT for cancer!! When I was diagnosed I had a hard time giving up the ideaa that I could cure this 'naturally'. In the end, I bit the bullet and had the chemo, rads, and surgery. Alternatives that I was able to use in conjunction with conventional treatments were Reiki, acupuncture, massage, yoga, and guided imagery.
Colleen gave you some very good advice, especially the part where she said make sure your girlfriend knows that she is still pretty to you!!

Teresa