The best thing you can do is be there for her at all times. She is going to need someone she can depend on to help her and to take her to appointments. You have to keep her mind in the direction that she is going to beat this stuff. A good care giver is one thing she will need for sure. As for alternative meds, forget them. You wqaant the best for her and not someones pipe dreams or snake oils. I lost all of my teeth , had radiation and chemo after losing them. Then I had to have radiation seed implants put into my tongue and be in isolation a few days surrounded by lead and no visitors. I remember none of this and I guess should be glad. I was just told I am cancer free now and that is the best news ever. Stick with that girl if you love her and do everything she needs. Just make sure she gets treated at a Comprehensive Cancer Center. Good luck to her and make her the lite of your life.