Jexxie,
So sorry you had to find this site. All the advice given was terrific. I agree with Amy, try to find a way to be there if you can before the procedure, not only will it mean a lot to her, it will help all of you. So many members here have been through what your mom is facing and they are here to tell you about it! Keep the faith!!

Amy--Was just thinking about your mom the other day, she was an incredible person, loved by all.

Donna