Hi Jexxie...welcome to OCF. I know this is a hard time, but try to be strong. You are lucky to have found this site...it has changed my life. You will find so much support and information here.
My cancer is on my tongue so I'm not familiar with what kind of treatment she will have. Once you are able to give us more info about your mom's situation the others will be able to help you more.
I look forward to seeing more posts from you and to hear how your mother is doing.
You may also want to add a signature line so everyone knows your situation.