I too curse this disease,but i thank heaven every day for the english hospice care system,and the fact that the last three weeks of robins life were the happiest we had known for a very long time.I am so sorry that you aren't having the same experience sue.Out of 21 days in the hospice,i only had 1 day where i experienced what you have to face every day.It is a cruel and unfitting end for a couple who have fought together so valiently.

my thoughts are with you every moment of the day

love liz

Liz in the UK

Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.

Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.