I am so sorry that your daughter is having such a tough time of it I read your posts and many others and when I am at the end of my rope I to get on here and read what everybody else is going through and it seems to help. What do you mean by fluid under her chin? It to makes me sick to see what people are doing with there lives but they think it can never happen to them. My husband was like that now the biopsy came back from the Mayo real bad and they give him maybe 8 months to live. The surgery he would have to have is so radical they think he would probally not come through it with the health and weight prolems he has already got. We are just taking one day at a time and living it to the fullest. I have not been on line since before his Biopsy at the Mayo for a second opinion but the Rad and Chemo never completely got rid of it and now it has spread rapidly. I hope Heather is going to be alright and that your family gives you a little of moral suport and that your grandchild stays very close to you. When I said that I have not been online I meant posted online for along time. I always like to read and see if everyone is doing ok.