Steve--I don't believe the forum can ever get upset with one of their own members...unless it's an impostor coming in to sell some kind of "cure in a bottle" and exploit others for financial gain. I'm sorry for your recurrence...lets concentrate getting through this...You have a great strong attitude, you were not being selfish...

Sometimes I feel guilty because I feel like I should have better advice for others...Sometimes all I have to give is an act of silliness in hopes it gives a smile or laugh to another friend.

Steve--you have a big heart and that's what counts....

Last edited by Ray1971; 01-17-2009 05:37 PM.
7-16-08 age 37@Dx, T3N0M0 SCC 4.778cm tumor, left side of oral tongue, non smoker, casual drinker, I am the 4th in my family to have H&N cancer
8-13-08 left neck dissection and 40% of tongue removed, submandibular salivary gland & 14 nodes clean, no chemo, IMRTx35
11-4-08 Recovering & feeling better