Personally, I do NOT think an apology is in order at all. We all do/give what we can when we can, and we are here for YOU now as you face another difficult period in your life.

Good for you not to live by someone else's stats. Check the bottom of your foot - doubt you will find an "expiry date" there, and remember doctors give educated guesses based on historical averages - they are not infallible predictors of the future!

Donna

Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)