Hello,
My husband and I were told today his cancer is now back for the 3rd time in 1 1/2 years. Our Dr. at UCLA has said there is nothing more surgery, chemo or radiation wise they can do. They have thrown the book at this and it's still returning. They want to put a traeche in next Thursday to help with his breathing. The Dr. is willing to help us in anyway he can in regards to clinic trials, referring for a 2nd opinion, etc...
My husband and I are realizing the cancer is winning but we have to get another opinion to help with our acceptance of this. I know there are a few good hospitals in Texas and NY but I'm just curious what some of your opinions are. Many of you have actually been treated at these facilities. Please, where would any of you suggest we go for a fairly quick, knowledgeable 2nd opinion. We will fly anywhere in the U.S.
Thank you by the way for all your support.
Sincerely, Tamara

Kyle - 44 years old - non smoker/very casual drinker. Father of two little one's. Live in Ventura County, CA.
03/07 - squamous cell in left side of tongue removed. Chemo/Rad followed.
06/08 - tumor removed from part of tongue, base of mouth, left jaw, part of neck area. Chemo/rad followed.
10/08 - Now Petscan shows tumor in front/left part of chin under the flap (base of mouth). Has had fluid draining from this area into his mouth and under his chin.