I've read the responses, and everyone has had something valuable to say, but only you can tell how you will process this latest insult. It reopened your wounds; it's no wonder you have anger and bitterness and that you feel hollowed out. In time, perhaps, you can move on, but not yet. I think we all understand that.
Just remember, there are wonderful and caring people here, and I hope you trust that they will help lighten your load.
Godspeed,
Marlene