I've read the responses, and everyone has had something valuable to say, but only you can tell how you will process this latest insult. It reopened your wounds; it's no wonder you have anger and bitterness and that you feel hollowed out. In time, perhaps, you can move on, but not yet. I think we all understand that.

Just remember, there are wonderful and caring people here, and I hope you trust that they will help lighten your load.

Godspeed,
Marlene


Marginal mandibulectomy 6/17/08 resulted in DX of Stage I SCC - gingiva (3 mm) right mandible, buccal side. Clear margins. Occasional social drinker. Smoked last cigarette in 1979. Clear pet: 12/08; 7/20/09. Yay!