Claudia:

Im sorry you have gotten such bad news. Its not very nice of the doctor to be so heartless with news like that. Im hoping you get another opinion and even a 3rd that are better than the first one. Hang in there til you see another doctor, dont give up. If your husband is feeling low right now, maybe he needs some prescription meds to help with anxiety. Many people here have used that to help take the edge off. Recovery seems to take forever and can be very discouraging. But, dont give up even if there is little or no progress. Healing takes a very long time to get back to close to normal. I will keep you both in my prayers.



Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile