Thank you David this is what I'm looking for, the truth of what other people has gone thur and what they would do if they had to do it again. All of you are just great, With your help I know I can get thur this. One more question, (well maybe a few later...lol)did you have to give up driving? My husband is a lot older and needs a lot of care about meds. cooking, shopping. we can get some help from family, but they all work or have small children. Will I be able to do any shopping, maybe with the help of a cart, or do you have any better days? Do I need to see if I can get some kind of help with house, shopping,and picking up meds, things that have to be done.
Wilma