OHH, How I can relate with all of this that you are going through. So much so that I wrote an article about this very thing on my blog. www.surviving-oral-cancer.com/2008/07/recovering-from-oral-cancer.html

I tell them all exactly how things are. I get a tad bit stern with those who always ask and know better, IE: my sister, but I give them all the same story. ( I am no better today than last week. Ask me that again in 6 months and then a year.) LOL Sounds like I am being a smarty pants, but it is so very true. In 6 months to a year, I can have a different report to give them rather than asking every week, or every day like some used to do.

Best to you and Dan,

John


Stage 4A SSC Left Tonsil, back of tongue and Lymph nodes on left side. Tonsil removed, Chemo and Radiation treatments completed on June 26, 2008.