Angel - are you going to have the ENT dr who you say is a bully and doesn't listen to you, do the biopsy? I really wish you would consider going to Emory for a consult and second opinion. Have you asked your current ENT how many patients he has treated with oral cancer? When I asked the ENT that did my original bx that question, he told me he had "3-4" other patients. Well, believe me I did not want someone touching me that only had that little bit of experience - so I immediately want to a CCC (not Emory, I think I responded to you before that I was lucky to have the ability to go to MD Anderson in Houston, Tx, although I know it's difficult for a lot of people to travel that far)
Any physician that's too busy to answer your questions is not the physician you should be seeing...