Amanda,
When I had surgery (ND and partial mandibulectomy) a nasal tube was put in at the same time. Later, the nasal tube was removed under anesthsia and the PEG put in the same time. I really do not understand the controversy over the PEG. If a person breaks a leg he uses crutches until the leg can bear his weight. Removal of the PEG was only momentarily uncomfortable.

A suggestion from the grandmother of an almost 12 year old: It is amazing how we overlook the ability of children to adapt to a tough situation. Your daughter is at a natural age for "taking charge" in a household. She could write or speak to your father to let him know that she welcomes the opportunity to do her part to help by covering for you. Perhaps she would like to sit down with you and make up a schedule of jobs to be done while you are with your parents.

Best wishes,
Malka