Thank you all so much for your info, kind words & support. I did a lot of reading of "Getting through it project". I'm feeling better about all of this - I feel like I understand a lot more. I had a long talk with my Mom on the phone today. I informed her of this site and asked her how much info she wanted. At this time, she wants to take it one step at a time and she felt very reassured knowing that I would be able to help with some questions she will have in the near future. Again, I feel so much better, I feel I have so much to contribute in the way of support to my Dad as he undertakes this journey. We have formed this "team" to tackle what lies ahead. This sight has been a true godsend in such a short time. I am glad to have found you all and thank you from the bottom of my heart for your support.