Hi Paula,

Please don't feel guilty...fighting this disease is trying on everyone involved, your husband and you. I've no doubt you are doing everything you can but even the best of us feels stress and our physical limitations.

By all means vent here, there are many here that understand. I personally have nothing but admiration for the way you stand by your husband and chose to do so.

Cancer of Tongue, SCC early Stage 1, Dx 3/13/07, partial glossectomy 4/14/07 found no residual carcinoma and a granular cell tumor with pseudo epitheliomatous hyperplasia.