Remarks by Gary were taken completely out of context. As I have started to see things around here, we are getting more and more people asking for advise on decisions they have already made. There are a few of us, having been around for a long time, that tend to be a little strong in our posts. We post based on our personal experiences, direct knowledge of poor choices made by members passed. I for one, will no longer post to these types of threads. I have had ALL of the recurrences available and I'm a little tired of arguing my experiences against useless statistics and speculations. Maybe the appropriate individuals can make a note in their post, "speculative posts only, others please reply by PM". That should do it.

As for not missing the people you leave behind, My daughter asks me if I'll miss her when I die (I am dying). I tell here that I'll miss her as I die, but my life is about her missing me when I go. My entire purpose is to make every effort to create good memories for her, memories that will leave her with positive thought of our years together. My experiences and opinions, and in my opinion Gary's (Gary, only my opinion) are starting to be wasted on here. You will find all you need using the search feature. I never thought I would say this, I'm done with public postings here. Those that need it have my Cellular number, please use it.

Glenn