Nelie,
My apologies for confusing you with Minniea--it has been a long day. With respect to the issue I raised about young non-smokers, I was told by a doctor at the CCC where I was treated that the most aggressive tongue cancers he has seen in recent years occur among this group (i.e., non smokers who are in their twenties and thirties). I don't think I misunderstood when he told me this--he was pretty clear and straightforward. Can it be that "agressiveness" and "chance of recurrence" are two separate issues? I'm not sure about that. Of course, it's well known that smokers are at higher risk than non smokers for several types of cancer, even after they quit. And it's really no surprise that oral cancer is no different. I will certainly ask this question to the folks at Anderson.
Amy, I'm happy to hear you'll be going to Ohio State for a second opinion this Thursday. Write down all your questions beforehand. I'm even taking a tape recorder. I'm hoping the doctors allow me to record our consultations. Best of luck to you and keep me updated.
regards,
Gino