Sue,
Do you have any information you could put into your signature line from us about your dad's cancer? Do you get updates from the rest of the family?
I know you're mainly like me--'I can co9pe if I know what's going on' which is why I've been straight with you from the off about what is happening with me and how I feel (okay, I might not have told the WHOLE truth about a little vacation in November--tee-hee!).
You are, right now, the daughter of 2 parents, both with cancer affecting their mouths, so you have as much right to 'be here' as anyone else in your position my love,

Love Momma xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!