Any kind of a break up is a tough thing to go thru and even more so when other health concerns get into the mix. Please do come back here anytime - there are some wonderful, knowledgeable, compassionate people here to help support you. And we do care about how things are going with you. My son went thru a rough time with his break-up but now he can smile and refer to his ex-wife as his "starter-wife". Try to think about all the things that can go right for your Dad and Mom and let us know what's happening with you.