My two suggestions would be:

1) Tell your patient there is no such thing as a stupid question, that the Dr. understands patient fears, that it is okay to call to make appointments to clear up any potential issues - even if the patient might think it is silly, they don't think that.

2) The Doctor should address the role of the internet - tell patients that there are many many sites which would scare the liver out of any human. Provide a list of what the doctor thinks are "approved or helpful" sites, and all the while doing that stress that while one patient can learn from another - NO two patients are alike and you cannot predict your course and outcome based on what has happened to someone else - we truly all are unique. The internet is so prevelant and I think doctors ignoring that patients get information from that source is a mistake.

Enjoy your day. I'm looking forward to hearing how it turns out.

Donna


Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)