1. Get past the denial and self pity crap, decide to fight and live, focus on that.
2. The Doctors are in charge, but they are not god, talk to several, get a consensus. You must believe in the treatment your going trough.
3. Eat , exercise, sleep. You may be like me and have ignored your health your whole life, you can't do that anymore.
4. Take the meds, always, when your supposed to. They will have side effects, lot's of side effects, just tell the doctors.
5. It's a long ordeal, it's OK to breakdown, just get back up and face the next day.