I was diagnosed with stage 3 tonsill cancer on 3/9/05. I went thru chemo and rad. also. I firmly beleived it was much harder on my wife than it was on me. You sound like a very smart person with alot to share that I believe could help alot of people. I think a book or any kind of info you put out there will help other people as much as it will help you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.