Platinum Member (200+ posts)    Joined:  Jul 2005  Posts: 207  |    Hi Amy,
  Not sure of your mother's age or her possible other problems, but sounds like she is being a big baby.  She has to want to get better.  I suggest you tell her that you or your sister can no longer look after her and she must go to a long term care facility.  I know the guilt will a problem, but she needs to understand she has to put forth some effort.  
  Tough love is hard but works.
  Steve        
SCC, base of tongue, 2 lymph nodes, stage 3/4.  35 X's IMRT radiation, chemo: Cisplatin x 2, 5FU x2, &  Taxol x2.    Hooray, after 3 years I'm in still in remission.
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