Nelie, Amy,and Gary:
Thank you for responding I was and am really concerned about Gil- 30 years in the Army- one tough man who has never been ill before- but I think he is at his botton mentally.
I will try your suggestions. I know I have to start getting out of the house because he is bringing me down with him. Physically he is fine.


caregiver to Gil dx SCC 11/05 T2N2M0
finished tx 3/10/06 stage 4 rt tonsil,BOT,2 lymphnodes,35IRMT,6 chemo