 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 2,219 | Donna,
I think Rob hit it on the head. Most people feel that they won't know what to say or do if they visit. They put this before what Rose really needs. Also, if they haven't seen her since her treatment they might be fearful of what she might look like.
I think she looked great and you should tell people that. Sure she lost some weight, but that shouldn't be a problem for anyone. Like Amy said, call those people that asked if there was anything they can do and tell them that now is the time to do it.
I think things will get much better when the trach is out and she has more freedom to get around out of the house. The Oxford Valley Mall is calling the two of you. You're almost there!!!
Hang on.
Jerry
Jerry
Retired Dentist, 59 years old at diagnosis. SCC of the left lateral border of the tongue (Stage I). Partial glossectomy and 30 nodes removed, 4/6/05. Nodes all clear. No chemo no radiation 18 year survivor.
"Whatever doesn't kill me, makes me stronger"
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