Dave
My Mom died peacefully in my arms, she was only angry at the cancer not her family, she knew we wanted her home with us...
SO WHY DO I STILL FEEL GUILTY..
Could I have done more? could I have made it easier for her? could I have found better words to say to her? could I have got her home before the pneumonia took hold? my life is full of endless unanswerable questions.
So I think that a period of feeling guilty is part of the grieving process..
May your God walk with you and help you to be at peace with yourself..
Sunshine.. love and hugs
Helen


SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04